July 31, 2025

Passing of Beaufort Veteran Neil Richard Theisen

News Summary

Neil Richard Theisen, a cherished veteran and community member of Beaufort, passed away. Known for his service in the Vietnam War and commitment to supporting fellow veterans, Neil’s legacy includes his warm spirit and adventures with his wife, Jane. His memorial will honor his life and dedication to community service.

Beaufort, South Carolina – Neil Richard Theisen, a 77-year-old veteran and cherished community member, passed away on July 13, 2025, at the Ralph H. Johnson VA Medical Center in Charleston. His lengthy and commendable life serves as a testament to his service, dedication to family, and commitment to his community.

Born on September 18, 1947, in Madison, Wisconsin, he was the son of Vincent and Marie Theisen. Neil was preceded in death by two brothers but is survived by his wife, Jane Cabral, who resides in Beaufort. In addition to his spouse, his stepchildren include Caroline Hughes from Bristol, Rhode Island; Christopher Cabral, engaged to Shana, from Griswold, Connecticut; and Catherine Confarotta, married to Jeff, from Attleboro, Massachusetts. He is also survived by five grandchildren: Emily, Kayla, Alex, Sarah, and Sophia.

Neil served honorably in the United States Air Force during the Vietnam War, where he achieved the rank of Sergeant before retiring in 1969. Following his military service, he pursued higher education and graduated from City College in New York with a degree in Economics. Neil found a fulfilling career as a Master Plumber, and he dedicated 30 years to this profession before retirement.

After completing his career, Neil relocated to North Dighton, Massachusetts, before moving to Beaufort in 2017. He was actively involved with the Disabled American Veterans (DAV) both in Massachusetts and Beaufort, emphasizing his commitment to supporting those who served in the military.

Neil’s personal life was marked by adventure and companionship. He met his wife, Jane, in 2015, and the pair quickly discovered their shared love for traveling by trailer. Together, they explored over 40 states, including Alaska. They married on September 2, 2020, during a camping trip in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee, surrounded by nature and their passion for exploration.

Known for his warm, kind, and generous spirit, Neil had a remarkable ability to touch the lives of those around him. He often extended his help to others without expecting anything in return, demonstrating selflessness and a strong character. His support for veterans and community members in need reflected his enduring commitment to making a positive impact on those around him.

In honor of Neil’s life and legacy, a memorial mass will be held on August 5, 2025, at 10:30 a.m. at St. Peter’s Catholic Church in Beaufort. Following the service, inurnment will take place at the Beaufort National Cemetery, and Neil will receive military honors from the United States Air Force, recognizing his service and sacrifice.

The family has requested that instead of flowers, donations be made to the Friends of Fisher House in Charleston to honor Neil’s memory and support fellow veterans and their families. Arrangements are being handled by Anderson Funeral Home and Crematory.